Spouse and Family Ministries

Alpha Marriage Registration

2011-08-30T10:39:00.002-04:00

Registration for Alpha Marriage is open!

Click HERE or under "Registrations" at the right sidebar.

Alpha Marriage is a weekly gathering of married couples looking to enrich their marriage while enjoying fellowship with other couples in a relaxing atmosphere.
Childcare is provided!

Where: World Gospel Mission Student Center
When: Thursday nights, 6:30 - 9:00pm. September 22 - Dec. 1 this fall.
Cost: One-time fee of $25 per couple, due Sept. 22nd.

Space is limited...register by September 18th!

Contact: Elizabeth Pomeroy
elizabeth.pomeroy@asburyseminary.edu

Marriage Incubator

2011-08-30T10:22:00.000-04:00

Interested in learning more about Marriage Incubator?

Check out the details, registration and fun HERE!

Graduating Couples Event - RSVP

2011-04-26T10:22:00.000-04:00

Spouse Consecration Service

honoring the spouses of graduates

Monday, May 9, 2011

Six o’clock in the evening

Cordelia Thomas Dining Room

Asbury Theological Seminary

Celebrate the unique contribution and personal

development of the supporting spouse.

All graduating couples are welcome.

Address the unique challenges and joys

associated with healthy transition

both now and in the future.

Complimentary dessert provided

Complimentary childcare available with RSVP

RSVP required by April 30

Please RSVP to sarah.jackson@asburyseminary.edu

CALENDAR CHANGE

2011-04-06T15:49:00.000-04:00

Monday, April 11 - FUSION groups meet

Monday, April 18 - FUSION groups meet

Monday, April 25 - WOMEN'S COMMUNION feast* - all women welcome

*This is a change from the Spring 2011 calendar sent through the mail. This Communion event will be a special post-Easter feast!

FUSION Monday Night

2011-03-18T10:32:00.000-04:00

FUSION Groups meet Monday, March 21, from 6:30-8:30pm in various homes. Childcare provided.

2011-03-04T15:04:00.000-05:00

M.E.N.

Mutuality & Equity a Novelty?

SPRING FORUM

6:30-8:30 p.m.

Monday, March 14

Cordelia A & B

Asbury Seminary Kentucky campus

Childcare provided

800.2ASBURY

asburyseminary.edu

Are you ready to deal with gender issues that you will face in your ministry?

Panel discussion featuring:

Rev. Steve Elliott and Dr. Marilyn Elliott, Dr. David Thompson,

Dr. Kima Pachuau, and Adesola Akala

Featuring:

Come join the conversation!

2011-02-14T14:46:00.000-05:00

Alpha Marriage Begins Thursday, February 17th
(Registration Required)

What: A weekly gathering (10 weeks) of married couples looking to enrich their marriage while enjoying fellowship with other couples in a relaxing atmosphere... with dessert!

Where: World Gospel Mission center, Wilmore

When: Thursday nights, 6:30-8:30

Cost: One-time fee of $25 per couple (due February 17th)

Child care is provided!

Register today HERE

For more information, please email Elizabeth Pomeroy, elizabeth.pomeroy@asburyseminary.edu

First event of the new semester!

2011-02-04T17:29:00.000-05:00

THIS Monday, February 7

An invitation to all Women Spouses (and married Women Students)

6:30-8:30pm*

Student Center Dining Hall

ALL-FUSION (small group) GATHERING

Bring:
-an appetizer, salad, or dessert to share

We will meet/eat together for the first hour, then break into separate Fusion groups for the remaining time.
This is a chance to start the semester together, and allows for new spouses to be welcomed properly (who are not yet in a group).
*Childcare is provided
Questions? Contact sarah.jackson@asburyseminary.edu or ashley.cook@asburyseminary.edu

Couples Retreat 2011

2011-01-11T09:36:00.000-05:00

Fri/Sat February 25/26

Doubletree Suites, Lexington

$75 per couples includes:

Friday night lodging in suite with hot tub
Friday night dance party with dessert bar
Saturday breakfast and lunch
Saturday afternoon marriage enrichment session

Payment required by Feb. 16 to reserve your spot!

*Optional additional Sat. night in suite for discounted rate of $109

To reserve your spot:

sarah.jackson@asburyseminary.edu

859-858-2390

Advent Communion - tonight Dec. 13

2010-12-13T10:13:00.001-05:00


Women's Communion 6:30pm in Cordelia B (childcare provided)

As the semester ends...

2010-11-24T15:03:00.000-05:00

November 29 - Fusion meets (6:30pm)

December 6 - Fusion meets (6:30pm)

December 13 - Women's Communion (6:30pm)

There will be no Monday night childcare in January. Fusion and other events will resume in February. If you are interested in joining a Fusion group in the spring (or starting your own!), contact Sarah Jackson at gcd.asbury@asburyseminary.edu.

MONDAY - Nov. 15

2010-11-15T08:18:00.000-05:00

TONIGHT! Free pasta banquet.

TIME: 5:30pm

PLACE: Student Center cafeteria

WHY: to give thanks and review the semester's efforts together

Families are invited to eat together. There will not be childcare tonight. Instead of the 3:30pm service project, volunteers are welcome to come set up for the banquet at the cafeteria. Email gcd.asbury@asburyseminary.edu with questions.

Last Day to Register for Marriage Incubator!

2010-11-01T12:54:00.003-04:00

Registration Applications are due today!

Need more details on the program? Click HERE.

Apply: Online Form HERE through November 1st. All couples will receive notification before November 11th.

incubator@asburyseminary.edu

FUSION! NEXT 2 MONDAYS...

2010-11-01T11:37:00.000-04:00


FUSION GROUPS meet Nov. 1 and 8 at 6:30-8:30pm.

Childcare provided.

Women's Communion - Monday 10/25/10

2010-10-24T19:02:00.001-04:00

Women's Communion - 6:30pm in Cordelia A/B

Theme: Gratitude

For any woman who is desiring a fresh face.

Worship led by Sara Cobb

Teaching by Dr. Marilyn Elliott

Words from Jessica Hamilton and Esther Achi

Open to all women - spouse or student, single or married

*childcare provided, and dessert served

Marriage Incubator: Registration/Application

2010-10-13T11:41:00.014-04:00

Woo-Hoo! Couples may now begin applying for Marriage Incubator!

Registration applications will be accepted through All Saints Day, November 1st. There are 12 spots available in the pilot group that launches this fall. The group meets throughout the entire school year, over both semesters and the January term.

Gatherings: Intended for a weekly basis. 2nd Thursday of the month is reserved for group teaching. Childcare is provided. The three other gatherings are scheduled at your own discretion in the other weeks of the month: date night, small group fellowship, and individual couple time. Childcare will be provided on a designated evening in which couples can plan their date night on.

Cost: The cost per couple to participate in the pilot version is $35.

Schedule: The first gathering will be November 11th and continue on the 2nd Thursday of each month through May 12th. Presence is expected for all these sessions; consider your calendar and commitments when you apply.

Location: On campus!

Childcare: Provided twice monthly, once during the group teaching time and again for couples to schedule their date night on. Yay!

Registration Application: Available only online HERE through November 1st. All couples will receive notification before November 11th.

Questions? Email: incubator@asburyseminary.edu

Fireside

2010-10-04T17:07:00.005-04:00

Fan into flame...lovers!

Thursday October 14th:
Gathering fireside to affirm marriage!
Complete with cider, smores and make-your-own caramel apples.

* Meet, chill and connect with other couples
* Learn more about Marriage Incubator, launching in just a few weeks! (take a sneak peek HERE.)

Flames light up at 7pm. Bring your own mug.
@ Marilyn & Steve Elliott's: 512 Juniper

Directions from Seminary: Head north on Lexington Avenue, turn right at gas station onto Jessamine Station. Pass RJ Corman's, turn right on Westgate, take next right onto Juniper. Last house on left. You made it - head to the backyard!

Childcare available with an RSVP to:
Incubator@asburyseminary.edu

TONIGHT - Fusion Groups meet

2010-10-04T11:11:00.000-04:00


FUSION Groups meet tonight in various locations. 6:30-8:30pm. Childcare provided in Student Center Childcare Area. Come to potluck dinner tonight in Student Center at 5:30pm - bring your family and friends. (Hot dish provided...bring side or dessert!)

COMMUNION MONDAY - 6:30PM in Cordelia A/B

2010-09-27T10:57:00.001-04:00


COMMUNION TONIGHT FOR ALL WOMEN - MARRIED OR SINGLE

Dr. Marilyn Elliott is teaching on a spiritual response to transition -

Have you experienced transition recently? Do you feel uncertainty about your foundation or changing relationships? Like you've lost your place? Come receive encouragement to LEAN IN. May you leave the evening feeling renewed and strengthened.

Testimonies by Amy Polson and Jinkyoung (Jenny) Yoo

Music by Sara Cobb

Communion elements and refreshments provided by various Fusion groups.

*Childcare provided.

Alpha Marriage Small Group This Fall!

2010-09-22T09:12:00.000-04:00

Consider this for your marriage:

Commitment to a tightly knit small group for couples who want to strengthen their marriage. Each week the group meets over deliciously decadent desserts and goes through a series of 10 topics including communication, in-laws, sex, forgiveness, resolving conflict, and preparing for the ministry. Learn new things about your spouse and yourself as you talk through issues that may have been pushed aside, about how each of you feel loved, and how to mutually heal the hurt caused by one another. From group fellowship to personal conversations just between you and your spouse, this is an opportunity to join with the Holy Spirit and participate in the work God is doing in you to build up a healthy marriage.

When

Thursday nights starting September 30^th from 7:00-9:00 pm

10 sessions

Cost

$25 a couple includes all materials and childcare

Need more info?

Contact Jonathan Stokes: jonathan.stokes@asburyseminary.edu or Nathan Hollister: nathan.hollister@asburyseminary.edu or 260-242-1582.

Want to Register?

The link below will sign you up! Space is limited.

https://spreadsheets.google.com/viewform?formkey=dGFaX3ZidjJINmdHeF8zcE1UeER6WVE6MA

TONIGHT - Fusion Groups meet

2010-09-20T14:24:00.000-04:00


Fusion Groups meet tonight in various homes from 6:30-8:30pm. Childcare is provided in Student Center. Also, there is a service project beginning at 3:30pm (meet in Wilmore behind Clucker's gas station - bring the kids), and a community potluck dinner at 5:30pm in the Student Center.

Kick-off event for the 2010-11 year

2010-09-10T09:26:00.000-04:00

Monday, September 13 --- 5:30pm
Spouse and Family AND Samaritan Society Banquet

This event is for all married couples, and everyone else in the community!
Meet in the seminary cafeteria (Student Center)
Banquet is FREE
Bring your children and family (**childcare provided, or you can keep the family together at your table)
You will learn about this year's formation opportunities:

Marriage Enrichment
Small Groups
Couples Retreat
Women's Retreat
Women's Leadership Formation course
Gender Equity initiatives
English as Second Language (ESL) groups
Women's Communion
Serving our local community

Hope to see you there!
Contact sarah.jackson@asburyseminary.edu for more information.

A Place to Belong

2010-09-03T12:06:00.000-04:00

Are you looking for a “smaller” community? A place to feel at home?

FUSION groups offer a place to build friendships with other spouses around coffee, common interests, or a group study.

We believe that the Asbury Experience is for spouses and students alike. FUSION is one way to journey together, with your friends as your guides.

Here is more information:

*On Mondays throughout the semester, the Asbury community will meet to serve our local community from 3.30-5.30pm. A shared meal will take place at 5.30-6.30pm. If you have children, they are welcome and wanted at the service projects and meal times.

A variety of small groups (including FUSION) will meet from 6.30-8.30pm. Childcare is provided during the small group time. **Once monthly, all women’s FUSION groups will join for Women’s Communion.

***You are welcome to attend any or all parts of the Monday events. You do not need to be committed to coming all the time, nor are you required to be part of a FUSION group to join in any of the events.***

Mondays 3.30-5.30pm -serving our local community

5.30-6.30- shared meal

6.30-8.30- Fusion Groups or Communion (Child Care Provided)

September

Monday 13^thKick-off Banquet (no service project or small groups)

Monday 20^thFusion Groups

Monday 27^thWomen’s Communion

October

Monday 4^th Fusion Groups

Monday 11^thGender Equity Forum (no Fusion)

Monday 18^thFusion Groups

Monday 25^thWomen’s Communion

November

Monday 1^stFusion Groups

Monday 8^thFusion Groups

Monday 15^thCommunity Banquet (no service project)

Monday 22^ndReading Week

Monday 29^thFusion Groups

December

Monday 6^th Fusion Groups

Monday 13^thWomen’s Communion

Here They Come!!!!

2010-05-12T09:36:00.000-04:00

'Tis time for the GREAT TRANSITION. At the same time our beloved friends are packing their boxes and ironing their graduation robes, new families are tentatively making their way toward campus.

If you are interested in being on a TRANSITION TEAM,

please contact the Spouse/Family office.

We need people to be available for move-in help, phone calls, baking, etc.

You can spend as much or as little time as best fits your schedule.

Please respond to spouse@asburyseminary.edu with your contact info and preferred level of commitment.

This is the easiest way to love one another! It's natural and needed.

Graduating?

2010-05-03T14:40:00.001-04:00

Spouse & Family Ministries

cordially invites you to

Asbury Seminary’s Spouse Consecration Service

honoring the spouses of graduates

Monday, May 10 2010

Six thirty in the evening

Cordelia Thomas Dining Room

Asbury Theological Seminary

Celebrate the unique contribution and personal

development of the supporting spouse.

All graduating couples are welcome.

Address the unique challenges and joys associated with

healthy transition both now and in the future.

Complimentary dessert provided

Complimentary childcare available with RSVP

RSVP required by May 5, 2010

Please RSVP to spouse@asburyseminary.edu

Earth Day Simulcast! Hope for Creation

2010-04-19T12:20:00.003-04:00

Earth Day is this week! Celebrating the 40th anniversary this year, Earth Day has come a long way, far beyond from being that day when you thought about planting that tree you forgot to get.

Earth Day is about hope, stewardship, partnership, respect, inspiration and activism.

Blessed Earth is bringing together the global community on the eve of Earth Day this year to discuss how the church and Christians are part of God's plan to bring hope for creation. You won't want to miss this simulcast!

Dr. Matthew and Nancy Sleeth (we've had them speak together at Couple's Connect last year - and they live here in Wilmore as their home base) began Blessed Earth as an environmental non-profit to inspire congregations about creation care. Now that work has expanded as they educate, equip and re-vision individuals, schools, companies, congress and families all across the world.

So, this Wednesday, April 21st, join the community in McKenna Chapel. Doors open at 6:30pm, program starts at 7pm. President Tennent and Dr. Kalas (former interim President) will be hosting this FREE event!

(tree hugging and hippee granola optional)

Blessed Earth from Blessed Earth on Vimeo.

Couple's Connect Surveys

2010-04-12T21:52:00.005-04:00

Have you been to Couple's Connect this year?

We would love to know your feedback, whatever your experience was.
And, we'll entice you with the opportunity to win a date night in order to get it!

Fill out a quick survey at: www.surveymonkey.com/s/couplesconnect
Then, leave a comment in this post telling us you filled one out and include your email.
You have ONE WEEK and then we'll pick the winner and notify them by email.

We've just picked one winner from the comments - just in time for Friday date night! We'll be picking one more winner early next week. All surveys and comments must get completed by Monday for you to be eligible!

Friday Winner: Jonathan Bryant!
Tuesday Winner: Kendra George!
(generated by random.org)

Date Night Childcare RSVP

2010-04-12T11:49:00.001-04:00

Date Night is Friday, April 16th!!

Childcare will be provided from 5:30-9pm.

If you'd like to RSVP your child then email spouse@asburyseminary.edu with your children's names and ages.

40 child max - so first come, first serve!

Happy Dating!

Couple's Connect Celebration!

2010-04-07T15:14:00.004-04:00

Reflection.
Blessing.
Healing.
Growth.
Praise.
Hope.
Thankfulness.
New Season.

God's Testimony.
In your story.

The year is drawing to a close, but with enough time to reflect and celebrate on the work God has done in our marriages. This evening is a special night dedicated to connecting with your spouse, one another and with God in light of these past few months. We serve a God who is faithful to complete the work He has started in us. We invite you to participate in an evening that will collectively (and just personally with your spouse) remember some of the that work He has started while also preparing ourselves for the work still to be completed.

BRING:
Bring your favorite treat to share - We're treating one another to a delicious array of desserts!
(and don't forget your mug for drinks.)

As Always:
Everyone is invited - invite your friends!
Monday night, 6:300-8:30pm
Seminary Dining Commons
Childcare provided beginning at 6:15pm.

2010-03-25T14:16:00.000-04:00

AWAY.

We're going to be away next week from our regularly scheduled "programming." (No events the week of Reading Week.)

May the same emotion that filled the women who found the empty tomb be yours. Well, maybe not the fear part. But the part where they ran to tell everyone else this CRAZY thing had happened.

[And you can talk all about this with your friends at FUSION on Monday, April 5 from 6:00pm-8:30pm]

COMMUNION - bring a jacket, as we will spend time in the garden

2010-03-19T13:57:00.001-04:00

Monday, March 22

6:30-8:30pm

Fletcher Chapel (1st floor of Stanger Hall, across from Asbury Inn)

Dr. Marilyn Elliott will be leading us in a teaching on "Lament."

Then we will celebrate Eucharist together.

All women are invited.

Childcare provided in the Student Center.

Guy's Night: Friday!

2010-03-15T10:07:00.004-04:00

Get your BBQ on!

Guys, add a little spice to your Friday Night by joining the boys at Sonny's. Famous for their sauces, pulled pork and their all-you-can-eat ribs. (Bonus Byproduct - your wife gets some downtime too - childcare is provided!)

Check out their sizzlin' menu here: SONNY'S

Just a quick drive to Nicholasville and you're on your way to Rib Spectacular.

Who: Any hungry guy, duh. (Single, married, student, spouse - invite your neighbor or bring a friend too.)
When: Meet at 6:30pm in Student Center Parking lot to caravan.
What to Bring: About $10 or whatever you want to spend on dinner & your appetite.
Childcare: Provided Free, just register your kids at spouse@asburyseminary.edu or 859-858-2315 (names & ages). Begins at 6:15pm.
Are you game? Contact: Tony Grace 618-339-5902 tonymgrace@uky.edu

(Or meet there about 6:45/7pm: head north on Nicholasville Road - its on the left hand side at the stoplight next to Applebees.)

FUSION - this Monday

2010-03-12T13:21:00.002-05:00

"Your Friends are Your Guides."
That was an old way of describing our Fusion groups, but it's been rolling over in my mind.
I like the way it sounds. Let's bring it back, like my husband is always trying to do with the term "rad."

Fusion groups meet in various homes. Or restaurants. Or parks. Or karaoke clubs.
CHILDCARE IS FROM 6-8:30PM IN THE STUDENT CENTER.

Other Fusion dates this semester: April 5 and 19, and May 3

Gender Equity Conference

2010-03-10T08:35:00.000-05:00

THURSDAY AND FRIDAY

Everyone is invited to attend the "Gender Issues in the Church: Theological and Practical" conference Mar. 11 through Mar. 12, with Dr. Christine Pohl and Dr. Kay Rader as keynote speakers.
The conference will be held on campus in Wilmore.
There will also be a series of workshops to choose from throughout the conference.

Check out this link for more info:
http://www.asburyseminary.edu/news/gender-issues-in-the-church-theological-and-practical-conference

Couples Connect - MONDAY

2010-03-04T10:46:00.000-05:00

*Sigh.

It's been a long week.

The whirlpool at the Doubletree seems like a lifetime ago (Couples Retreat - last weekend).

We've had some "Courageous Conversations" in our household. Or, more truthfully, we've started them and have been interrupted by a crying baby or dinner that needs to be prepared or an email that needs to be answered. Etc.

If you want to hear more about this, it would sure be nice to have you at

Couples Connect on Monday (March 8).

6:30-8:30 in the Dining Hall of the Student Center - childcare provided, as usual.

Root beer floats!

AND, more about "courageous conversations" from other people who have actually been having them.

Don't forget to Bring Your Own Mug for coffee, tea, and hot cocoa.

*By the way - if you've been having a courageous conversation in your marriage (or have been trying to) - leave a comment about that.

Monday FUSION

2010-02-12T11:10:00.000-05:00

I've been missing my Fusion group something fierce. The last time we met (pre-holidays), we noshed on Addictive Sweet Potato Burritos and talked about our hopes and fears for the upcoming dance-of-the-in-laws that is Christmas and New Year's. We wrote them on an index card and sealed them in an envelope, to be opened in January or Feb - whenever we next met. I can't remember who kept them, but it will be interesting to see.. 1) what I wrote (crazy how something so high drama and frought with peril as Christmas-with-the-family fizzles by Valentine's Day), and 2) how the Lord met us over the holidays.

Can't wait to see my friends.

Monday Feb. 15

Fusion Gathering*

Cordelia A/B on campus

6:00pm-8:30pm

Childcare provided

*each group brings food and comments to share

Alpha Marriage!

2010-02-10T14:30:00.005-05:00

Pour into your marriage now
and get ready to give the 'ole bedsprings a workout

Alpha Marriage has 10 date nights planned so that you & your spouse can share some quality time together, pouring into your marriage. This tight-knit small group will journey together through challenging, relevant topics that give you the opportunity to develop truth and skills no matter what stage of marriage you are in.

Here's some things that we're all about at Alpha Marriage
(now in our 7th season!):

Enjoy romantic desserts

listen and discover your spouse again

build deep support networks with other couples

get professional pictures taken

learn how to fight fair

balance your budget

forgive one another

send your kids to childcare

share your marriage story

build memories together

make food to share

honor the family tree

pray intimately together

We'll be meeting at WGM (World Gospel Mission) located across the street from Asbury College & the Luce Center ( College St.) from 6:30-9:00pm on Thursday nights. Would love for you to join us!

The Schedule! (Commitment is 10 weeks)
February 25 - Strong Foundations
Mar. 4 - Communication
March 11 - Resolving Conflict
March 18 - Forgiveness
March 25 - Finances
April 8 - Intimacy
April 15 - In-laws
April 22 - Parenting
April 29 - Building a Home
May 6 - Marriage & Ministry

Cost: $25 per couple (due 1st night) - includes ALL materials, resources, childcare, and take-homes. (checks made out to Asbury Seminary)
Childcare: 6:15-9:15 pm in the Student Center Deep End (free but you must register kids)

Register! Sign up HERE or at the left column under "Registrations." ENDS FEBRUARY 19th!

Email me at kelly.grace@asburyseminary.edu OR spouse@asburyseminary.edu if you have further questions.

Couple's Connect: Feb. 8th!

2010-01-27T09:56:00.004-05:00

Spouse & Family is beginning this semester with Couple's Connect - a gathering of husbands and wives who want to build into their marriage.

We'll focus on connecting to our spouse, to God and to one another. In an intentional but informal way, we'll share together our prayers, laughter, struggles and hope.

The night's theme is: "love, honor, cherish" where we'll talk the vows we made to one another on our wedding day. Marriage's journey is full of ups and downs and we'll hear from some courageous couples about what that creed has come to mean for them today. Husbands and wives will have the opportunity to share personally with one another over a delicious dessert too.

When: 6:30 - 8:30 pm Monday, February 8th
Where: Seminary Dining Commons in the Student Center
Childcare: 6:15 - 8:30pm at the Student Center (free)
B.Y.O.C. - Bring Your Own Cup for coffee, tea or hot chocolate

Students, Spouses, Staff, Community - all are welcome. Come even if your spouse can't!

2010-01-22T08:52:00.006-05:00

Fri.-Sat., February 26-27, 2010
Annual Couples Retreat
Doubletree Suites, Lexington
doubletree1.hilton.com

Reservations by Feb. 15

Click on link to the LEFT
or spouse@asburyseminary.edu
$75 per couple
*required to fully reserve spot
Checks made out to Asbury Seminary,
deliver to Spouse/Family office
204 N. Lexington Ave.
Wilmore, KY 40390

Event Schedule:

FRIDAY
Check-in begins at 3pm
Dinner on your own
7pm-10pm Oldies dance party with dessert bar (50's, 60's, 70's costumes welcome!)
Lodging in spacious suite with gargantuan hot tub

SATURDAY
Breakfast 8-10am
Morning/afternoon sessions with Clint and Penny Bragg (Inverse Ministries)
Lunch included
End by 4:30pm

*Optional additional Saturday night in suite discounted rate $109

The New Year

2010-01-19T08:59:00.003-05:00

"...Giving them a garland instead of ashes,
The oil of gladness instead of mourning,
The mantle of praise instead of a spirit of fainting
So they will be called oaks of righteousness,
The planting of the LORD, that He may be glorified.
Then they will rebuild the ancient ruins,
They will raise up the former devastations;
And they will repair the ruined cities,
The desolations of many generations...."

Dear SFM families,
There has been much to mourn since we last saw each other in December.
As January makes its descent into another month, we do not grieve as those who have no hope.
May the words of the prophet Isaiah (above) hover over your home, as true and rich as they are hovering over the desolation in Haiti and Kabul and...

We will begin our semester offerings (of service, friendship, formation) in February, and will make sure you know about them before-hand.

But meanwhile, let us work and sleep and LIVE with the prayers for the oppressed on our lips.

Looking for a dog? Please Read!

2009-12-20T07:33:00.002-05:00

A note from one of our current ATS spouses. If you can help this family...let them know!....

Hello everyone! As you can see, we really do need your help!! As you all know, Cooper is our little Westie, and unfortunately, he has to go to a new home without children. We would love to be able to give him to someone we know and feel really comfortable with (it would be great, if we could still see him every once in awhile, too!, but not necessary)....I'm saying this all matter of fact like, but believe me I have shed many a tear since Wednesday. I feel like we are giving a part of our family away!! It breaks my heart terribly!! We already had a guy come over Friday night who is interested in taking Cooper, he's a nice guy and we can go with him, but just wanted to put feelers out to more people to see if there is an even better fit -- this guy is a friend of a friend of a friend, so it's quite a distant connection. Would love to give him to someone we know a little more, just for our peace of mind.

Do you know someone who would be interested in Cooper? Just to give you some info, Cooper is a West Highland Terrier, will be 6 on March 8. He's loveable, loves to be cuddled and his belly to be rubbed! He does love to bark, but what terrier doesn't! He is house trained, and we have trained him to stay in the house for hours at a time (so he will go good with those who work all day). He will be better being the center of a attention, ideally no other dogs and especially no cats. He is not a mean dog, just gets protective when he doesn't know others are playing, so this is the reason why he is better not to be in a home with children, because sadly little Stanley got bit by Cooper on Wednesday. He was a trooper, and mommy and daddy were more traumatized than him!! But, we just can't live in the tension and wondering if he will do it again, unfortunately he has nipped before. But, like I said, he really is not a mean dog, protective tho. I hate even typing these words, we thought Cooper would be with us through all our children, so this is so sad for us, but we have to do what is best for our family.

Do you know someone who would want a great dog for a Christmas present? We would be willing to make a road trip for the right home, so please if you know someone who is interested, please have them call 859-887-3095, 614-306-4112, and 419-674-6506 right away. Since we do have this guy who is interested, any recommendations brought to us by Monday morning, would be great! We can send a pic message by phone to someone who may want it!

Thanks everyone, sounds silly to ask for prayer for us, but we need it, it's just very sad! Please help Cooper find a good home!!

Love,
Kendra, Eric, Stanley, and Cooper

Recapping Couple's Connect

2009-11-20T08:42:00.009-05:00

The last Couple's Connect, on Nov. 16th, opened an avenue of sharing with one another that we would like to continue to foster.

Here's a recap of the night ~
We began together under the premise of Galatians 6:2, "Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." This night was about our individual wounds within the context of our marriage and community. We shared a moment of silence, to simply sit with one another and then we broke out into group of men and women. There, we entered into an invitation from James 5:16, "Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective." We listened to testimonies of God's work in people's life to help them face their wounds and receive healing. Each of us had the opportunity to then safely share our burden as we wrote it down and slipped it into a bag. That bag was passed around and we read each one, acknowledging and receiving them collectively. We were given the chance to draw what a symbol of freedom and reconciliation would look like in our lives as we ended that small group time together. We came back and sang in worship to the God who is mighty to save and read a number of Scriptures that speak of the truth we are trying to abide in. We capped off the night with delicious desserts and joyful fellowship. Each couple represented left with their choice of either book: Dr. Seamand's, Wounds that Heal or a redeemable gift certificate for Dan Allender's, The Healing Path to continue together what happened that night.

ps - Dan Allender's books are now available in the Spouse & Family office at the student center at community life. Just bring your gift certificate to redeem.

Date Night Childcare - Nov. 13th

2009-11-11T08:29:00.003-05:00

Date Night is this Friday, November 13th!! Childcare will be available for your use from 6-9pm in the DeepEnd.

If you plan on using Childcare you need to RSVP to spouse@asburyseminary.edu. We will need:

-Child's Name
-Age

But - HURRY! Spots are limited! Due to workers, we will only be accepting 40 children for this event. Unfortunately, if your child is not on our RSVP list then they will not be able to stay and play.

RSVP Deadline is NOON on Thursday, November 12th.

Thank you!! And happy Date-Nighting!

-Spouse and Family Team

Couple's Connect: Monday Nov. 16th

2009-11-09T12:23:00.007-05:00

The Final Couple's Connect of Fall Semester!

All are welcome - Students, Spouses, Staff, Community!
Come even if your spouse can't!

When: 6:30 - 8:30 pm Monday, Nov. 16th
Where: Seminary Dining Commons in the Student Center

Childcare: 6:15 - 8:30pm in the Childcare Area at the Student Center (free)

B.Y.O.M. - Bring Your Own Mug for coffee, tea or hot chocolate or water

The theme for this night is on personal wounds and healing in the context of marriage and community. Come connect with God, your spouse and other couples as we journey together!

"Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." Galatians 6:4

2009-11-05T10:05:00.004-05:00

Come get a mitten Nov. 16-18.

It has a child's name on it.
Return gift and mitten by Dec. 1.

Here's why: We celebrate the international community by including their children in our national Christmas tradition of gift-giving. The gifts are given to the kids at an international family party on Dec. 4.

**The following information will be provided for you when you choose a mitten: the child's name, gender and age as well as a general gift idea (i.e. books, clothing, art supplies, etc.) selected by the parents.

Gifts should cost between $15 and $20.

Questions?
Email spouse@asburyseminary.edu or
multicultural.ministries@asburyseminary.edu

CALENDAR CHANGE

2009-11-05T10:01:00.005-05:00

CALENDAR CHANGE!

No Couples Connect this Monday (Nov. 9).

It has been moved to MONDAY, NOV. 16 at 6:30pm.
(due to the ATS Presidential Inauguration festivities! click here for more info)

If you're totally calender-ically confused, give us a call - 859-858-2315.

Communion - Monday, Oct. 26th

2009-10-24T22:18:00.003-04:00

Communion is this Monday, Oct. 26th. Join us in Richard Allen Chapel at 6:30pm. We will focus on the liturgical practices of the church and take Communion together. Once again, Dr. Marilyn Elliott will be speaking.

Come find a quiet place.

**Childcare provided in the DeepEnd. Richard Allen Chapel is located on the 1st floor of the Beeson Center.

Guys Night . . . Again!

2009-10-19T16:53:00.009-04:00

This FRIDAY, October 23!

"Bowling for Jesus"
A little cheesy I know, but so are the shoes. Unless you're Jesus. Then you don’t need shoes.

At Southland Lanes
(Southland Dr. in Lexington)

If you need a ride or can offer one:
Meet at the Student Center at 7:00 pm
Or, you can meet us there at 7:30 pm
Bring about $10 plus change for 2 games.

Street Address: 205 Southland Drive, Lexington, KY 40503

Contact Tony Grace if you are planning on going
tonymgrace@gmail.com

Childcare @ Seminary: 6:45pm - 9:30pm
Register ASAP the names & ages of kids: 859-858-2315

Couple's Connect coming Monday!

2009-10-08T14:49:00.007-04:00

boy meets girl.
boy marries girl.
boy then wonders how his beauty turned into a beast.

girl hands boy the mirror for an equally shocking discovery.

The fairytale ending is classic: "and then they lived happily ever after." But there's a few pages missing from all those storybooks...pages that somehow got cut from the fantasy edition...pages that go right before that familiar line.

Now, what could those missing pages contain? Probably the same things we don't tend to share with other people - wounds, fears, fights, mistakes, regrets, roadblocks...drama with the in-laws, having to sleep on the couch, swearing in front of the kids, going to counseling, having the electricity turned off - you get the picture, you live there too. We all live there, in a place called reality.

And this coming Monday night, we'll all be in it together. Three brave couples are sharing parts of their story, precious, treasured, vulnerable parts of their story. They are sharing how God moved in their marriage through what they encountered in life.

Marriage is often a place of revelation. That can be both irritating, joyous & hopeful. We see the side of us that really is a beast, even if this realization comes after we point the finger at our spouse. But, redemption is full of beauty. The Lord wastes nothing and works with the power to transform anything...and He will if we let Him have His way. Here's to facing risk, truth and the relationship we have with God, our spouse and this community.

See you Monday night!
6:30pm Stevens Pike Dining Commons
Seminary Student Center
childcare: 6:15-8:30pm
* B.Y.O.M. (bring your own mug)
* Bring a canned or boxed food for the food pantry

Women's Retreat 2009

2009-09-29T14:23:00.002-04:00

There is a still a spot for you on this year's Women's Retreat! We'll be going back to Kavanaugh Life Enrichment Center: http://www.campkavanaugh.com/

Amberly Strebeck will be our speaker this year. She is a current ATS spouse, wife to Ryan, and mother to Morgan (4) and Athan (2). (And a proud Texas Tech grad--GO RED RAIDERS!) Mainly though, she has some wonderful things to share with us. It's sure to be a jam-packed 24 hours full of God's word, friendships, food, and a bit of sleep too!

Details:
Oct. 10th (leave Wilmore around noon) - Oct. 11th (arrive in Wilmore around 2pm)
Cost is $35

What to bring:
Bible
notepad/pen
bedding for a twin bed (sheets/blankets or sleeping bag)
pillow
snack to share with the group

*The final count needs to be turned in Monday morning (Oct. 5th) - - so let us know by Sunday if you plan to attend! Stop by our office or email: spouse@asburyseminary.edu

Hope to see you there!

Communion this Monday - the 28th

2009-09-26T14:55:00.004-04:00

Peace.
Prayer.
Presence.

Women, there's room at the table.

Come join in the feast of communion this Monday in Fletcher Chapel.

~ An evening of prayer and teaching by Dr. Marilyn Elliott. ~

** Don't know where Fletcher Chapel is? No problem! Come to the Student Center Lobby and there will be spouses there to point you in the right direction!)

Childcare is provided in the Deep End.

All married women are invited.

A God of Second Chances

2009-09-21T10:34:00.004-04:00

Their marriage shattered.

They were divorced for 11 years.

They lived on opposite coasts.

They had given up...
but God wasn't done with them yet.

What He orchestrated changed what they thought about themselves, marriage and God - forever.

Hear their story. Grow hope - for your marriage &
for other couples you can provide support for.

Clint and Penny Bragg are sharing their miraculous story of healing and hope. They discovered a God of second chances and they will challenge you to see hope for every marriage at every stage. They now follow a call to speak into the lives of couples across the country. Raising their own funds, they embark on 40-day trips of ministry throughout the year to share their message of God's reconciliation.

Not only is this a way to build on your marriage, whether you need some refreshment or a total restoration but this will also be a great experience for building a foundation to minister to other couples.

When: Saturday night, Sept. 26th, 7 - 9 pm
Where: Wesleyan Seminary Foundation (215 E. College Street, Wilmore, KY)
Cost: No charge!
Childcare: Register your kids at 859-858-2315. Provided free.

This is an amazing couple - full of honesty, spunk, wisdom and humility. For more information on them, visit inverseministries.org

Guy's Night

2009-09-21T09:50:00.009-04:00

Fire.

Meat.
Movie.
Mmmmmm.

A Flick & A Fire
Friday Night - Sept. 25th - 7pm

For all the guys - student, spouse, staff, single, etc.

Come hang out- We'll be projecting a movie on the side of the barn, roasting hotdogs & playing cornhole. There's something for everyone.

Meet at 7pm: At the Student Center Parking lot to go to Ichthus Park by the stage & the barn.
Rain location: Same place, just inside the barn. So, plan on coming.
Childcare: free - just register ahead of time at 859-858-2315 with names & ages. 6:45-9pm in the childcare area at the seminary.
Bring:
- something to sit on
- something to snack on (and share)
- game stuff (frisbee, cornhole, bocce set)
- and a few other guys

Questions? Call SFM and we'll hook you up.

See you MONDAY!

2009-09-20T14:06:00.002-04:00

Looking for a small group?

Want to go on the Women's Retreat, but not sure who will be there?

Did you just move to Kentucky and are looking for ways to make this place "home?"

Interested in finding places to volunteer your gifts and time?

Do you desire to make friendships with women of different ages and home countries?

Is this your last year at Asbury? Want to make some memories?

This Monday night (Sept. 21) is THE GATHERING - a spouse "kick-off" event.
All married women (spouses and/or students) are invited to the
Cordelia A/B dining rooms at 6:30pm.
Bring an appetizer or dessert, and a friend....or just come on your own!
Childcare provided in the Childcare Area.

Chapel on Sept. 23rd

2009-09-20T09:26:00.000-04:00

Want to know more about Biblical support for women in ministry?

You are invited to join the conversation about church issues related to gender on Wednesday, September 23, 2009.

The chapel service will be on the theme "The Kingdom as Gender Inclusive" with Dr. Long presenting the message. This will be followed by a talk-back session in Cordelia A and B with Dr. Long, Dr. Stonehouse, and Dr. Gatobu. This event is sponsored by the Multicultural Team for Gender Equity.

Want to know more? Contact Eve Jagger: Eve.jagger@asburyseminary.edu.
photo at NSO by Krissi Carson.

Couple's Connect this Monday!

2009-09-09T09:34:00.000-04:00

Spouse & Family is kicking off their fall season with Couple's Connect - a gathering of husbands and wives who want to build into their marriage.

We'll focus on connecting to our spouse, to God and to one another. In an intentional but informal way, we'll share together our prayers, laughter, struggles and hope...
...which always goes better with delicious desserts!

When: 6:30 - 8:30 pm Monday, Sept. 14th
Where: Seminary Dining Commons in the Student Center
Childcare: 6:15 - 8:30pm in the Deepend at the Student Center (free)
B.Y.O.C. - Bring Your Own Cup for coffee, tea or hot chocolate - but no worries, we've got you covered if you forget to go green.

Students, Spouses, Staff, Community - all are welcome. Come even if your spouse can't!

Kids are Cool!

2009-09-08T15:36:00.002-04:00

Imagine this…a table set with cupcakes, both vanilla and chocolate frosting. Next to them, an assortment of Capri Suns to drink. Mix with that about 25 college girls…and you’ve got yourself a Childcare Worker Orientation! The SFM team gathered with this large group last Tuesday night for about an hour. We filled out paperwork, snacked together, and shared cute stories about all the little kids that love to be downstairs.

Now, most of you know that I have an invested interest in the Childcare Area because my own three little ones are often down there. Let me tell you…from a mother’s heart…we’ve got the cream of the crop working for us! These college ladies are amazing! They are excited! They loved meeting the new kids last week during NSO and can’t wait to see the rest of the Seminary babies! It was sweet to see my son, Nate, run in and see a few of his favorite workers – hugs were shared and my heart was warmed. Nate left calling it his “new school”. Love it!

I just wanted to share with you that we are off to a great start in the Childcare Area. The workers are ready to meet your sweet children. The kids are ready to play with each other. We hope to see you and your smiling children downstairs soon!

Alpha Marriage - Fall 09

2009-08-31T12:19:00.006-04:00

Alpha Marriage is back this fall for yet another season of cultivating love, growth & worship in the relationships of seminary families.

We have 10 date nights planned so that you & your spouse can share some quality time together, pouring into your marriage. This tight-knit small group will journey together through challenging, relevant topics that give you the opportunity to develop truth and skills no matter what stage of marriage you are in.

We'll be meeting at WGM (World Gospel Mission) located across the street from Asbury College & the Luce Center ( College St.) from 6:30-9:00pm on Thursday nights. Would love for you to join us!

The Schedule! (Commitment is 10 weeks)
Sept. 17 - Strong Foundations
Sept. 24 - Communication
Oct. 1 - Resolving Conflict
Oct. 8 - Forgiveness
Oct. 15 - Finances
Oct. 22 - In-laws
Oct. 29 - Intimacy *speakers Marilyn & Steve Elliott
Nov. 5 - Parenting
Nov. 12 - Building a Home
Nov. 19 - Marriage & Ministry

Cost: $25 per couple (due 1st night) - includes ALL materials, food, resources, childcare, and goodies. (checks made out to Asbury Seminary)
Childcare: 6:15-9:15 pm in the Student Center Deep End (free)

Register! Sign up HERE or at the left column under "Registrations."

Email me at kelly.grace@asburyseminary.edu OR spouse@asburyseminary.edu if you have further questions.

New Couple's Orientation!

2009-08-24T13:18:00.003-04:00

~ September 2nd at 6:30pm in the Student Center Lobby ~

All are welcome - New & Current seminary families!

We'll be dessert-ing, social-ing, and pray-ing it up together as we welcome the new couples to the community.

Let us know you're coming via email to spouse@asburyseminary.edu

See you then!

The Roots have Spread...

2009-08-21T10:21:00.006-04:00

This summer sure has been filled with lots of transitions, students and staff alike!

It has been and continues to be a time for the roots to run deep and strengthen. Growth is evident and we're excited for the fruit this year will produce.

As we welcome new families to the seminary, we all are looking forward to the start of a new season together. We can't wait to share stories with you all!!

Many of you already know that we are celebrating with Erin Crisp who has accepted a teaching position in Fayette County this coming year. She served as a phenomenal leader for the Spouse & Family Team this past year and we are not-so-secretly jealous of the eighth grade students who will now be the recipients of her gifts. She'll always be part of the SFM family, now getting to be a full fledged participant! And Erin, we'll save a seat for you at anything you want to volunteer at... :)

Stepping up into the position of Spouse & Family Director is our own Sarah Jackson. She has served the last 3 years as the Student Services Coordinator in Community Life. She and her husband, Jason, have been involved with SFM since beginning their seminary journey. In this transition, the position has become full time (YAY!!) and she'll be keeping regular office hours so stop by and say hello as you pass through the lobby of the Student Center. We're excited to have Sarah "officially" join the team.

With Spouse & Family kick-off events just a couple weeks away, we'll be posting more updates and resources to the blog so you can stay informed. Check your snailmail too for a mailing that includes information on all the programs we'll be offering this fall. But, more than anything, we'd love to talk with you in person and connect too.

You're loved & you're being prayed for.

love * grow * worship

New Books

2009-07-14T11:09:00.002-04:00

Our office has some great marriage and family related books and DVDs that you'd be welcome to borrow if you're interested in reading this summer.

Sacred Marriage- Gary Thomas (DVD and book)
The Art and Science of Love- A workshop for couples- John Gottman- DVD series and book (not a Christian marriage resource, but research based and valuable none the less)
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work- John Gottman
The Marriage You've Always Dreamed Of- Greg Smalley
When Couples Pray Together- David and Jan Stoop
Communication: Key to Your Marriage- H. Norman Wright
Mad About Us: Moving from anger to intimacy with your spouse- Gary and Carrie Oliver

Give me a call 2315 or email and I can SPO you a book or resource if you're interested.

A couple of chuckles while you're vacationing...

2009-07-13T15:05:00.002-04:00

FROM: It's All About You- The Washington Post Writer's Group

Summer Play Group

2009-07-03T14:09:00.002-04:00

Want to hang out with some other parents?

Meet at Centenniel Park (Icthus grounds) 6-8pm on Tuesday evenings. Bring dinner for your family, eat, play and chat. No RSVPing required. Just come whenever you like.

Moving in?

2009-06-08T13:11:00.002-04:00

Are you a new family moving to Wilmore or Nicholasville this summer? Call our office 859.858.2315 or email spouse@asburyseminary.edu and we'll get you some move-in help.

QUESTION

2009-05-22T11:46:00.000-04:00

When you arrived at ATS, what helped you feel like you could belong here? When did it first start to feel like home?

Summer

2009-05-08T09:11:00.003-04:00

Our spring semester draws to a close with Consecration this Monday night. We want to provide opportunities for folks to share community over the summer and to welcome in new families as they arrive. We have two main streams of thinking here.

1. Transition Team: many of you have already volunteered to be on our transition team of couples who will be working to meet, greet and welcome new families over the summer.

2. All are invited gatherings (not the technical term but I'm makin' in work here): Planning to go to a Legends game? Let us know, we'll post the details and welcome other families to meet you there. Nicholasville pool on an afternoon? Contact our office at least 3 days in advance so that we can get word out. Eating at La Hacienda or Sonny's? Maybe others would like to join you. Let us know and we'll open it up to others. Picnic? Yard saling? Frisbee golf? Grilling out? Icthus park? Golf? Museum? Short road trip? Whatever you think others might enjoy, let us know and we'll get the word out. If people don't show up that's OK. You were planning on going anyway right? And if you're sitting around wishing you had something to do with someone, take advantage of some of these offers that are sure to arise throughout the summer. We'll post them here on the blog, and we'll send them out to the email list.

We would LOVE to get some things on the summer calendar right away as a resource for new families who will be arriving soon. Consider organizing an "all are invited gathering" anytime in June, July or August; simply email us the date, times, and location and we'll take care of posting it. I hope to see many of you around over the summer.

Playgroup is still meeting May 11th and 25th from 10:30-noon. The 25th they'll be meeting at the park because the student center will be closed.

Childcare Snacks!

2009-04-22T14:34:00.003-04:00

Hello Parents! The Childcare Area is in need of snacks! There aren't that many dates left so we don't need a whole lot. A bag of goldfish, a box of graham crackers, or something like that would be great for our little ones to munch on while down there.
We also need 5 oz cups for the kiddos. If you have either of these needs around the house and would like to donate them - we'd appreciate it! You can bring them by the Childcare Area at any time - if no one is around, just place them on top of the cubbies. :)

Thanks for all you do!

Monday Night 4/20/09

2009-04-17T10:44:00.002-04:00

"A longing fulfilled is a tree of life...a longing fulfilled is sweet to the soul."
Prov. 13:12 & 19

Everyone can use some sweetness for the soul. What would fulfill a longing for you this Monday night? Spouse and family wants your relationships and your existence to be one that is life-filled, growing, and becoming new. Examine your soul this weekend. Are there withered places? Are there bitter places? Are there tired, lonely, dry places?

We can't fulfill every longing through a program or event, but we can provide opportunities for life and sweetness. This Monday night, childcare will be available, and what you do with the time you have (6:30-8:30pm) is your choice, but please spend that time in a life-giving activity. Spend time alone, with a spouse, with your Fusion group or with a friend, but do something that fulfills a longing for you.

Forum of International Women

2009-04-10T08:43:00.000-04:00

“Issues I Have Faced in My Ministry”
Friday, April 17
1:30 to 3:30 PM
Cordelia A and B

A number of international women enrich the Asbury community with their presence. Please join us to hear four of them tell about issues they have faced in their ministry.
The presenters are:
Dr. Anne Gatobu: Assistant Professor of Theological Studies (Kenya)
Carolyn Pappy Kuzhivila: PhD in Evangelism (India)
Adina Headley: Asbury Alumnus (West Indies)
Grace Gichuru: MA Intercultural Studies, Beginning D Miss program this summer (Kenya)

Baby Sitting Provided: 1:00 to 3:45 PM.
All are welcome. Please plan to attend.
Sponsored by the Mercy and Justice Team
Office of Multicultural Ministries.

Couple's Connect: Monday the 13th!*

2009-04-08T16:56:00.004-04:00

*B.Y.O.M. = Bring Your Own Mug!!

This Monday the 13th is the final Couple's Connect and it is going to be GREAT!

Matthew & Nancy Sleeth are talking about creation stewardship in the context of marriage. Read his book we gave away at previous couple's connects for a fruitful discussion!

We are also highlighting and giving away LOTS of eco-friendly products so you can work towards going greener. Come get and share tips, resources, food, seeds, and prayers for a more sustainable lifestyle. We're even planting a tree on campus together.

See you & your sweetie Monday at 6:30pm in Cordelia A & B.

childcare available 6:15-8:30 in the deepend.

Free Financial Peace Event - April 23rd!

2009-04-08T12:46:00.003-04:00

The Economy, $$ and Hope.

What does it mean for you, your family and your community?

The Seminary's Financial Peace class is hosting this live "Town Hall Meeting" with Dave Ramsey. He'll be taking questions live from people facebook-ing and twittering him.

The event is free and will be held Thursday April 23rd at 8:00pm (ends at 9:30pm) in the Administration Building, room 305.

Childcare is provided in the deepend but please let us know about your kids ahead of time so we can schedule ample workers.

Visit DaveRamsey.com for more details!

Kids Art

2009-04-03T13:55:00.002-04:00

Calling all child artists! We need your help. For the Asbury Reader this fall we would like to use some kids' artwork. Parents, have your child draw, paint or color their depictions of the following ideas. We're taking submissions until April 20th. The artwork should be on paper no larger than 8.5 x 11 and should be dropped off at the spouse and family office in the student center.

We're looking for depictions of the Kingdom of God. Share the parable with your child, explain the image used in the parable and possibly show them some examples of the imagery (i.e mustard seeds etc.), then ask them to draw or paint their own depictions. The parables are as follows:
The Kingdom of heaven is like-
*leaven
*treasure hidden in a field
*a merchant seeking fine pearls
*a dragnet cast into the sea
*mustard seed
*a head of a household, who brings out of his treasure
*a king who wanted to settle accounts
*a landowner who went out early
*a king who prepared a wedding banquet

Thanks for your submissions! We can't guarantee publication of all artwork, but we appreciate everyone's effort, and drawing about the parable could be a great learning opportunity for your family.

Spiritual Development and Children

2009-03-13T09:17:00.002-04:00

Dr. Cathy Stonehouse
Tonight- Friday March 13th
6:30-8:30pm
Cordelia A & B

Childcare provided in the childcare area. Come and hear what Dr. Stonehouse has learned from over a decade of research regarding how our children develop spiritually and what we can do as parents or grandparents to encourage spiritual growth.

Service Opportunity- 3/16/09

2009-03-09T10:39:00.002-04:00

Wilmore Community Center needs our help!

Drop off your kids at childcare in the student center, then head over to the Wilmore Community Center. The entrance is just off the Police Station parking lot. From 6:30-8:30pm next Monday night, we will be packing away their winter clothing to send to a relief organization in Eastern Kentucky and putting out the spring/summer clothing on the racks. We need your help! Would you give two hours of your time with friends to serve a local organization that does so much for our community?

Contact our office if you have questions, but I hope to see you there!

Free Knit Fabric

2009-03-09T10:29:00.003-04:00

A lady in the community has many bolts of t-shirt fabric that she would like to give away to someone who might have a use for them. She says they are perfect for making t-shirts and a regular sewing machine can be used with the addition of a needle for stretch fabric. If anyone can use this fabric, the lady's contact information is: Alma Blake # 858-0001. She can be reached after 3 pm Mon, Tues, Wed, and Friday. She lives right here in Wilmore and the fabric is being stored in a nearby storage facility. This would be a great project for a missions minded group of individuals.

Play Group

2009-03-06T09:20:00.001-05:00

A play group, open to anyone with young children, has been started by some Asbury spouses and community members. The group is open to anyone who would like to participate. They are going to meet in the Childcare Area in the Student Center on Monday mornings from 10:30-noon on the 2nd and 4th Mondays of each month.

The dates would be:
March 9th & 23rd
April 13th & 27th
May 11th & May 25th

Everyone is welcome! No registration required. Just show up for some conversation and play time with kids. In warmer weather the group will probably meet at or walk to the park as well.

For more information, contact Angie Storey-Fryer at angie_storey@yahoo.com.

Couple's Connect on Monday!

2009-03-05T18:59:00.003-05:00

Couple's Connect~ Monday at 6:30pm, Cordelia A & B

Come hear what Professor Cathy Stonehouse has to say about the community's role in the spiritual development of children.

We're going to have a playful night full of snacks, give-aways, discussion and ways you can facilitate connection with God for the kiddo's.

This isn't just for parents!!
And its not just about Silly Songs with Larry.

See you this Monday for Couple's Connect

childcare available from 6:15-8:30 in the deepend.

Need Cash? - Seminary Childcare Opportunities

2009-03-02T07:49:00.004-05:00

Our College Childcare workers are going on Spring Break so we are in need of workers to fill in. The times are:

March 13th: 6:15-9:15pm (Dr. Stonehouse Event)
March 14th: 1:45-5:15pm
March 16th: 5:50-8:45pm (Spouse Event)
March 17th: 10:45-12:15 (Chapel)
March 18th: 7:45-11:15am
March 19th: 10:45-12:15 (Chapel)
March 19th: 6:15-9:15pm (Alpha, Financial Peace, ESL)
March 21st: 1:45-5:15pm

Pay is $8 per hour.

If you are able to work any or all of these shifts, please email Angela at: angela.forbes@asburyseminary.edu.
Workers need to have a SSN and be at least 17 yrs old.

Love of children is a huge plus!

Fitness Center Childcare

2009-02-27T12:23:00.002-05:00

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Register to have childcare while you exercise. Hours for childcare are:
Wednesdays starting March 4th 8:00-11:00am
Saturdays starting March 7th 2:00-5:00pm
For $15 (check payable to ATS- you can give it to the childcare workers on Wednesday), you can drop off and pick up your children at the Deep End anytime within these hours. We will run childcare until May 16th this semester. Sign up today!

Couple's Retreat Recap

2009-02-21T21:44:00.009-05:00

BubbleShare: Share photos - Easy Photo Sharing

What a wonderful time! We hope you enjoyed your experience and took the opportunity to grow and have fun with your spouse!

We wanted to make available some of the resources that were provided during the retreat.
HERE is the link to the pictures that were professionally taken.
HERE are the massage techniques.
HERE are the love starter questions.
HERE are instructions for the relationship timeline.

We also have a growing collection of marriage enrichment resources in the Spouse & Family office available for you to check out. This includes Gary Thomas' 'Sacred Marriage' book and dvd that were shown at the retreat. If there is enough interest, we may be inclined to have a "movie night" where we can watch the entirety of the videos together over snacks.

Help us do next year's retreat up right too ~ LEAVE A COMMENT about
1. What you most enjoyed about the retreat
2. How the experience enriched your marriage
3. Suggestions for next year
and we'll randomly select a winner to receive a date gift basket! We'll announce the winner at Couple's Connect on March 9th!

Celebrate Black History in Worship Today!

2009-02-12T09:24:00.005-05:00

Hosted by Scott & Natasha Cozart.
McKenna Chapel
7pm Thursday Feb. 12
Children especially welcome!

Registration is Open!

2009-02-08T23:59:00.002-05:00

Register now for Financial Peace University! You may also register to the left under "Community Links." Spots do fill quickly. For details look below.

Alpha Marriage is currently full for the spring semester. Check back for future seasons.

Find Financial Peace this Spring

2009-01-26T16:32:00.004-05:00

Spouse & Family will be offering a 10 week class of Financial Peace University. We'll meet every Thursday beginning Feb. 19th from 6:30-9:00pm on campus. The course is free but you will need to get the materials including the workbook and Financial Peace Revisted book. (These can be purchased on daveramsey.com or borrow them)

Facilitators will guide you through fun & sassy financial videos to help you develop a game plan for budgeting, dumping debt, saving, investing, & giving.

The course will be open to couples & singles of the seminary. Spots are limited so come back to the blog here and register, beginning Feb. 9th. You'll be able to sign-up online.

* childcare will also be provided in the Deepend but let us know you'll need it upon registering

New Friday Giveaway and Winner

2009-01-16T15:23:00.002-05:00

This week's Giveaway will be a 2 week contest since the prize is so great and we want lots of feedback. The task: Leave a comment that describes what you can do for a date with your spouse in Wilmore/ Nicholasville for less than $10. Be creative! We will be collecting these ideas along with our own and handing them out to couples at the first Couples Connect of 2009 on February 9th.

The prize: Two $5 gift certificates for Main and Maple coffee house in Nicholasville.

The winner from last week is- Comment #4, Christina Proctor. Contact our office to let us know how you would like to receive your chocolate and books- SPO or pick-up.
Stay Warm everyone!

ELL Group Leaders Needed

2009-01-14T14:45:00.002-05:00

English Language Learner (ELL) Group Leaders
If you are a female and you grew up speaking English, we need you. Many of the wives of our international students have expressed a desire to learn conversational English. Would you consider giving 1.5 hours of your time every week or every other week, just 3 or 6 hours a month, in service to international spouses in our community? We will be meeting Thursday nights- 6:30-8:00pm and childcare is provided.

No preparation or special training is necessary. You would simply come to the class and follow the lead teacher's instructions. Your time would be spent practicing basic conversation skills with non-native English speakers while also building relationships with the same group of 2-3 women every week (or every other week). The time commitment would be either weekly or bi-weekly from February 19th until May 14th.

Imagine the difficulty of living in another culture, hundreds of miles away from home, being unable to communicate with many of the people in your environment. Contact Erin at Spouse and Family if you're interested in serving our international community in this way. 858-2315 or spouse@asburyseminary.edu

Alpha Marriage!

2009-01-12T12:06:00.005-05:00

Alpha Marriage is coming this spring!! Come back to the blog starting Feb. 9th to register. We'll have a link to register online. Spots fill quick!

Here's the Details for the Spring Semester Group:
Alpha Marriage will be held Thursday nights from 6:30-9pm at World Gospel Mission (across from Asbury College). It will consist of a series of 10 dates with delicious desserts and relevant topics. You'll have time to meet other couples but really focus on time just with your spouse. The program fee is $25 and that covers all materials, food, and surprise goodies! (Childcare will also be provided at the seminary, free of charge from 6:15-9:15pm.)

The Schedule! (Committment is 10 weeks)
Feb. 19 - Strong Foundations
Feb. 26 - Communication
Mar. 5 - Resolving Conflict
Mar. 12 - Forgiveness
Mar. 19 - Finances
Mar. 26 - Intimacy *speakers Marilyn & Steve Elliott
Apr. 16 - Building a Home
Apr. 23 - In-laws
Apr.l 30 - Parenting *speakers JD & Tiffani Walt
May 7 - Marriage & Ministry

Don't forget - Registration starts on the blog Feb. 9th!

Friday Giveaway

2009-01-09T16:22:00.003-05:00

With a nod to the upcoming Movie Night, (and the fact that all I really want to do on cold January days is curl up under a blanket with a good book or movie), share your favorite book, movie or both.

This week's prize is more Canadian chocolate- another Coffee Crisp chocolate bar, and some great books. We have "The Creation Story" by John Audia, a short, hard cover picture book for children that includes sign language instructions for each day of hte story. Also, "Bible Stories for All Ages" with stories, activities and game or song suggestions. This book would be ideal for use with your own young children as bedtime stories or with a class of children you may be teaching. OR, you could donate it to your church's Children's Director.

Check back next Friday to see if you won!

Movie Night

2009-01-09T08:47:00.004-05:00

January is a great month to snuggle up in front of a fun movie with friends. On Monday, January 26th, childcare (6:15-9:30pm) will be provided in the Deep End and couples are invited to enjoy a movie together. Snacks and drinks will be provided!

Location and time: McKenna Chapel, 6:30-9:00pm
Movie: Bella
Click here for a Christian review. Click here for secular reviews.

Relevant themes in this movie will be discussed after viewing. Themes include redemption, the value of life, friendship and compassion. Whether you attend simply to enjoy a good movie with your spouse, to interact with friends or to participate in the discussion, you will enjoy your evening.

Photography Winner

2008-12-19T08:59:00.002-05:00

Here is the result from the "Sweet Captures" photography giveaway a few weeks ago.

Parenting 0-3 year old

2008-12-18T08:24:00.003-05:00

While we're on a little vacation from Spouse and Family events, I thought I might blog some of my favorite web links. We'll see how many I get to. This first one is a site for parents of children 0-3 years old. It has lots of great information about more than just medical issues. Sleep habits, temper tantrums, social and emotional development milestones, play ideas, and lots more. Share your favorite site in the comments maybe we'll post some of them on the blog for future use.
The link is:
Here is 0-3.

Friday Giveaway

2008-12-12T08:30:00.003-05:00

I don't have a picture this week, but the prize is an ever-so-cute miniature candy Christmas tree ornament and a box of lifesaver candy canes. It's sitting on top of the spouse and family desk if you want to check it out.

To win this week, just comment with your response. We are renaming the Deep End- both sides. The workout area will have a new name that reflects its purpose, so we need to rename the childcare side of the Deep End to better reflect it's purpose.

Please feel free to weigh in on this even if you don't have kids or if your kids are too old for childcare. We still value your opinion.
So, what do you think? Here are some options to get you started or you can submit your own idea.
a) Childcare Center
b) Childcare Area
c) Continue to call the childcare area the Deep End
d) Other?

The Winner is...

2008-12-05T16:28:00.003-05:00

Kelly Lawson, you have won photography with Meggan of www.sweetcaptures.com Email me for Meggan's contact info, or you can find it on her website. Congratulations Kelly!

This week's giveaway will be posted this weekend. Check back soon.

Come to the craft fair this weekend. Buy soup- $4 for adults, $2 for children for delicious homemade soup, roll, and drink. Yummmm

Winner and New Friday Giveaway

2008-11-28T19:21:00.003-05:00

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You are the big winner in the giveaway from last week. Your prize of a Coffee Crisp and $5 gift card are ready to be claimed.

Next week's giveaway is a super special prize! One of our own spouses, Meggan, is not only a seminary spouse and momma, but a photographer as well. Please check out her website and Christmas card original designs. They are beautiful!
She has agreed to donate a terrific prize for one lucky family.
Meggan will either give you a free photo session, or she will give you 25 uniquely designed photo cards with a photo you provide. Your choice.

Answer the following question in the comment section to win this terrific prize. Post a comment containing a "recipe" to your favorite healthy, quick and easy meal, dessert or treat.

For example, I put sliced apples, a teaspoon of local honey and crushed rice krispies on a plate for each boy. They dip the apples in the honey and then role them in the rice krispies. It's a great after school snack, and they literally lick the plates clean.

Couples Retreat 2009

2008-11-24T10:51:00.004-05:00

Make an on-line slide show at www.OneTrueMedia.com

Christmas Craft Fair...coming soon

2008-11-18T18:55:00.003-05:00

Saturday Dec. 6 from 9am to 3pm is the Seminary Christmas Craft Fair.

Its a wonderful tradition to have in Wilmore - go to the Craft fair and pick up Christmas presents, let the kids do a craft, snag some lunch at one of the delicious food booths, then head on out to downtown Wilmore for Old Fashioned Christmas.

Want to sell your own crafts or food? Contact Kim Workman (kim.workman@asburyseminary.edu) and reserve a table. There is a small fee.

Want to volunteer an hour to serve soup at the Spouse & Family booth? This helps us raise money for the events we put on, like the Couple's Retreat in the spring. Contact Erin to sign up for a slot.

What do you love about Wilmore's Old Fashioned Christmas? My favorite was the chance to try sushi, provided by many of the Korean spouses...mmmm! -And I've always wanted to take a horse carriage ride so I'm getting in line early this year!

Growing Healthy Relationships

2008-11-17T16:47:00.004-05:00

Ministry and marriage do not always go hand in hand. Spending time developing and then maintaining a healthy marriage should be a priority for all of us, yet often it is not.

This spring, thanks to a generous grant, ATS students, staff and faculty have an opportunity to participate in a marriage strengthening experience from the Center for Relationship Enrichment.

The dates and times for the event are 6:00-9:00pm on Friday, February 6th and 9:00am-1:30pm on Saturday, February 7th. There will also be a follow-up session on Saturday, March 28th. Meals and childcare will be provided and the event will be held right here at ATS in the student center.

Professional speakers Steve and Twyla Lee will be conducting the seminar. Steve is a professor of Psychology at Huntington University and teaches in the marriage and family therapy doctoral program at Denver Seminary. Twyla is the Director of Social Work Education at Huntington University. They have been co-leading marriage events for over 20 years. As higher education professionals, they have a passion for strengthening married student relationships and have designed courses and retreats to target those populations. We have a limited number of available spots, so register online today.

Friday Giveaway

2008-11-14T10:05:00.005-05:00

The big winner from last week:
Hoony Bang- Comment #6
You can stop by the SFM office in the student center to pick up your prize, or we can send it through the SPO. Please email spouse@asburyseminary.edu and let us know which you prefer.

This week's Friday Giveaway question is:

Do you plan to go Christmas shopping on the day after Thanksgiving? If so, where and when; if not, why not?

And the prize this week is:
- a $5 Starbucks gift card AND a Coffee Crisp chocolate bar- available only in Canada and select US locations.

Leave a comment below replying to the above question and we'll draw a name for the prize again next Friday.

Retreat for Women

2008-11-07T14:44:00.000-05:00

Profound Simplicity: A Christian Perspective on the Holiday Season

Jesus came into the world quite simply and yet it was the most profound moment in all of creation. But, the holiday season can be overwhelming for many. Some eat too much food, spend too much money or have too little time for considering what all the busy-ness is about. Some experience a sense of loss in the midst of all the excess.

Laura Beach will lead an exploration to help Christians focus on preparing for a different kind of holiday season this year. Prepare for advent and explore the profound simplicity of Christ's coming. It could be your most memorable advent season ever.

Friday, November 14th 9:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m.
at the home of Julie Calvert - 1194 Indian Mound Road
or
Saturday, November 15th 9:00 a.m. – 2:00 p.m.
In the Fellowship Hall at Centenary UM Church on Tates Creek Road in Lexington

For either date, please R.S.V.P. to Jennifer Heersche at 269-2800 ext. 279 or jennifer.heersche@centenary.lexmail.org . This event is sponsored by the Women's Ministry Team at Centenary, 2800 Tates Creek Road, Lexington, Kentucky.

Friday Giveaway

2008-11-07T08:40:00.000-05:00

Another reason to look forward to Fridays! Check the spouse and family blog each week on Fridays and you'll see an opportunity to win a great prize. This week's prize is a blank journal and a $5 Starbucks gift card.

How do you win? Respond to the following question with a comment on this post. If you click on the blue highlighted link that says "comment" you'll be able to write a comment that answers the question and publish it to our blog. A winner will be chosen each week from the comments posted through a random drawing. We will announce the winner of the previous week's contest each Friday.

For this week's contest, what did you do with all of that Halloween candy?
a) Share it with your spouse after the kids went to bed
b) Pick out your favorites and hide them away for your own special treat
c) Let the kids eat it all
d) Dole it out in small portions and use what's leftover for stocking stuffers in a few weeks.
e) other thoughts?

Bless A College Student!!

2008-11-05T13:46:00.000-05:00

Hello Spouses!

We are so blessed to have 34 College Childcare workers that watch our kids down in the Deep End. Many of us have taken advantage of this great ministry that the Seminary provides for us. Many times we don't get to really be a part of the College worker's lives because we are hurrying off to a Spouse event or other Seminary function! Now is the time for you to invest into one of the worker's lives!

We would like to give each worker a "thank you bag". Don't worry....it doesn't need to be elaborate! Here are a few key points:

-No more than $5-10 needs to be spent.
-You can purchase or bake something, or have them over for dinner! (These are college kids...a little goes a long way!)
-Deliver your thank you bag to the CPO (College Post Office) between Nov. 17-20th.
-Put College worker's name on the bag and they will deliver to the worker.
-Directions to CPO:
It is located in the basement of the Theater Building. (Behind the Old Library building) From Jessamine Station Rd continue one block on College St. Take a left on a sharp uphill drive. Building is on the right with CPO sign on the outside. Enter in the back door, turn left at the water fountain, and the CPO is at the end of the hall. Problems finding the CPO? Call 858-3511 for College Assistance.

So...to do this is easy! Send an email to: spouse@asburyseminary.edu and I will send you the name of one of our workers!

Want to prepare more than one bag? - GREAT! Let me know...we have lots of names to pass out still!

Don't have children but still want to participate? - Awesome! Can do!!

Thanks for investing in these workers as they have invested in our Spouse Community!

Angela Forbes